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Turning point? Fork stuck in the road? Roads diverged in a wood?

Unsure about the analogies, just sure that my life has gotten way too complicated, and I'm hyperventilating at my sister's computer at my parents house at 2:23 am.

Ron and I are going to take some time apart, or as I graciously stated in the e-mail telling him this, I am going to take some time apart from him. The issues are immense and have nothing to do with religion, involve no one else, and no fight. I tried to voice it while I was at Ron's earlier, but it doesn't work when the person you're talking to is half-asleep, and it works less when you don't even know what you need to say. The point is, I just need some time away from him to think and live for myself, particularly before entering into a big committment of living together.

I am very lost and confused. I really miss my best friends.



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Jul. 13th, 2006 06:48 am (UTC)
The point is, I just need some time away from him to think and live for myself, particularly before entering into a big committment of living together.

I know what you're saying. You mentioned (at least, I seem to remember that you did) that there were troubles with Rob right from the start. So, it's different feeling these feelings and realizing you may ACTUALLY be making the lifelong committment now. You need to make sure that you are bringing who it is YOU are into the relationship.

If that doesn't make any sense, it's 15 to 3am and I am dreadful tired. But I think it may have some truth.

Jul. 13th, 2006 12:45 pm (UTC)
Time is a wonderous thing, which can cure almost any illness and fix almost any problem. Maybe it's better to take some time to yourself. I'm sure it'll all work out for the best once you figure out exactly what you want, both out of yourself and from him.

I wish you the best! :-/
Jul. 13th, 2006 01:32 pm (UTC)
If you're having that kind of doubts, time apart is definitely called for. Make sure that you're just as willing and eager as he is for that kind of commitment.
Jul. 13th, 2006 05:46 pm (UTC)
Hope you were able to talk to Sara about this by now. Living together is a huge step and it's pretty fast. Even if you had no doubts whatsoever it would still be fast. That's a lot of emotional pressure on the relationship and on you both. Why do you have to live together now? Can you figure out an alternate (female) roommate plan, and let the relationship progress, or not, without outside circumstances such as finances forcing these issues?
Jul. 13th, 2006 06:09 pm (UTC)
finances aren't really the main issue, although of course its cheaper to live with someone than alone.

the main reason for living together would just be that it would be a lot more convenient.
Jul. 14th, 2006 04:28 am (UTC)
Hmmm... that's vague. And sounds like you're awfully confused. Hope that clears up for you, or you figure it all out quickly.
Jul. 14th, 2006 01:08 pm (UTC)
as you've learned, sometimes vague is better than baring the complete innerworkings of your soul over LJ.
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